treasure seeker

always looking below the surface

Matthew 3:1-10 September 16, 2014

Filed under: Bible Study,Devotional,Matthew — rjfleming @ 3:09 am

John the Baptist. Now there’s a character.


He would never make the cover of GQ. I mean who wears a leather belt with a camel hair coat?


He didn’t have a church, or a leadership position in the Temple. He probably wouldn’t have been welcome at either one anyway, unless he changed his clothes. And shut his mouth.


But he didn’t really worry about being ‘accepted’ before he could start fulfilling God’s call on his life. He just went out in the wilderness, hung up his shingle, and started preaching. I wonder if he even had an audience when he began. He may have started out preaching to the wildlife.


However it happened, soon people started heading out to the wilderness to hear him preach. And it wasn’t like he was sharing a feel-good message. He was telling these people–most of whom were probably already involved in ‘religion’–that they needed to repent and be baptized. And that’s just what they did. And they went back and told their friends and family and people kept coming.


Then one day the local religious leaders showed up and asked to be baptized. You KNOW there’s a story behind that trip! My idea is that Temple attendance started falling off drastically because the congregation was all out in the wilderness listening to JTB. Or maybe the congregation was growing, but all they could talk about was JTB and his message and their baptism and their changed lives.


Anyway, when the religious leaders showed up, instead of rejoicing over them, JTB called them a bunch of snakes and told them he wouldn’t baptize them unless they had evidence of a changed life. How embarrassing that they didn’t!


I have a feeling they went back to town with as many questions as they left with. Maybe more. I don’t think they ‘got it.’ I think they went out there looking at JTB’s methods. I think they were trying to figure out what he was doing that was drawing such a crowd. Maybe they were checking out his logo and his mission statement. Maybe they even thought about having services outside every fifth Sabbath.


The sad thing is I don’t think they had a clue that they weren’t even in the same hemisphere as JTB, much less in the same ballpark.


JTB was sharing TRUTH. Life-changing truth. And they were still stuck in their religion.


There was no way they could compete because once you’ve had a taste of life-changing truth, you can’t go back to mere religion.


And if the religious leaders thought JTB was a handful, they were in for a surprise. Because he was just the warm-up act for the real religion-bashing, Life-Changing TRUTH.





- When is the last time you heard life-changing truth? Where did you hear it?

- Where do you go to be challenged to repent?

- What is your calling? Are you waiting to be ‘accepted’ or are you moving forward to fulfill it?

- In what wilderness could you hang up your shingle and start fulfilling God’s purpose for your life? Why aren’t you there yet?









It’s Matthew! September 9, 2014

Filed under: Bible Study,Devotional,Matthew — rjfleming @ 3:17 am

I’ve decided to take a trip through the book of Matthew. At some points on the journey I’ll slow down and really take a close look at the territory and other times, like today, I’ll just hit the high points and keep moving.


Today I want to share the 4 principles I saw in chapters 1 and 2.


Chapter 1 is mainly the genealogy of Jesus and a little background on the situation surrounding his conception and birth.

Chapter 2 covers the first few years of his life, which covered a lot of miles–literally.


Here are the principles that made an impression on me.

1. No matter what the current politics or the local culture, God has and always will value females as much as he does males. This is evident in the genealogy in chapter 1. Several women are listed–something that normally wouldn’t have happened.

2. Jesus is “God with us.” Near the end of chapter 1, it mentions one of the names that Jesus would be called–Immanuel. The meaning of this name is “God with us” and it’s one of my favorites. It doesn’t make sense that “God put skin on and moved into the neighborhood” — which is one way I’ve heard it described. But He did. And He did it because He loves us and wants to be with us . . . FOREVER. And He was willing to do whatever it took for that to be possible.

3. God uses dreams to speak to and guide people. He used dreams several times in these two chapters. Earlier this year at my church, we had a missionary couple who serve in the Middle East come and speak. They serve in a very dangerous area of the world and do some very brave things when God asks them to. They shared some unbelievable stories of Muslims who have been converted because Jesus appeared to them in their dreams and they became curious enough to talk to these missionaries or to ask for a Bible. If you don’t already, you may want to pay close attention to your dreams and ask the Holy Spirit to show you what they mean.

4. Sometimes the path we have to take to follow God is not a straight one. Look at all the travel Joseph had to lead his young family on during the early years of Jesus’ life. First Joseph and Mary traveled to Bethlehem before Jesus was born. Then they had to flee Bethlehem and go live in Egypt for a while to keep Jesus safe. Then they came back to Judea but had to leave there and ended up in Nazareth. I think sometimes we believe that if we’re following God, everything will be simple, straightforward, and sensible. And yet often it is complicated, convoluted, and makes absolutely no sense to our logical brains. I’m so glad we have these examples in the Bible so we can know this is the normal life of a God-follower.


Application Questions:

1. What do I need to change about the value I place on males versus females?

2. How often do I realize how close God is to me?

3. How has God used dreams to speak to me lately?

4. What does my path look like right now?


Excellent Questions September 2, 2014

Filed under: Devotional — rjfleming @ 3:30 am

Andy Stanley wrote a best-selling book several years ago titled The Best Question Ever. He says the best question you can ask yourself when facing a decision is, “In light of my past experiences, my current circumstances, and my future hopes and dreams, what is the wise thing for me to do?”

I’m not sure anyone can top that. I agree with Andy. When you’re facing a decision, that’s the best question you can ask yourself in order to determine your best course of action.


The question I shared last week that my pastor asked a few weeks ago is also an excellent question. It’s probably not the best one to ask when you’re making a decision. But if you continually find yourself making wrong choices or just not living life to the fullest, this is a great question to ask yourself: “What lie am I believing and how is it affecting my life?”


Here are some lies a lot of Christians have believed at one time or another that can be very detrimental to living the abundant life God created you to live.

- God is mad at me.

- God is disappointed with me.

- God is not in a good mood when I fail.

- God gets impatient with me when I repeat mistakes.

- God gets annoyed and exasperated with me sometimes.

- God is not interested in the details of my life.

- God doesn’t have time to listen to all my prayers.

- God is not approachable.

- God expects me to be more spiritually mature than I am.

- God wants me to figure things out on my own.

- God is waiting for me to “clean up my act” and then come back to Him.


Believing one of these lies for just a little while can drastically affect your ability to enjoy life, to live the abundant life God created you to live, and to fulfill the purpose you were created to fulfill.

So just in case you need a reminder . . .

- God is not mad at you.

- God is not disappointed with you.

- God is always in a good mood.

- God does not get impatient with you.

- You do not annoy or exasperate Him . . . ever.

- God is interested and involved in every detail of your life.

- God listens to every syllable of every prayer you pray.

- God is always approachable because Jesus’s blood is interceding for you 24/7/365.

- God knows exactly where you are and exactly why you’re there.

- God has given you Holy Spirit to teach you everything you need to know.

- God is pursuing you. He wants a close relationship with you. And if you have walked away from Him (like the younger son in Luke 15), He is eagerly watching and waiting for you to turn around and take one step back toward Him. As soon as you do, He will run to meet you, embrace you just like you are, and celebrate your return.


Don’t waste another moment believing any of the lies designed to keep you from an intimate relationship with God. It’s what you were created for!






Back to Joseph August 26, 2014

Filed under: Bible Study,Devotional,The Life of Joseph — rjfleming @ 2:58 am

I know. I know. I spent MONTHS dissecting CHAPTERS about this man’s life.


But last Sunday my pastor shared something that I had never thought about. And it really hit home. So I had to share it with you.


Over the summer my pastor has been hitting some of the ‘big’ stories in the book of Genesis. And last Sunday he taught on part of Joseph’s life.


He shared about Joseph’s home life. How his father doted on him and favored him over all the other brothers. How the brothers resented Joseph for their father’s favoritism. How Joseph shared his dreams about ruling over his family with those same brothers (not a real smart move). And how eventually the brothers had had enough of Joseph.


My pastor talked about how first the brothers were going to kill Joseph. Then they decided it would be more humane to drop him in a pit and leave him there to starve to death. That made them hungry, so they took a break and ate lunch.


Then a caravan came by and they decided why not make some money off of the situation. So they sold Joseph to the passing caravan.


I know you remember all of that part. And I’m sure you also remember what they did next.


They killed a goat and covered Joseph’s infamous coat with the blood and took it to their dad and said, Hey! This looks kinda familiar. Is this your son’s coat? (My paraphrase.)


And Jacob is inconsolable. No one can comfort him. And he spends the next two decades mourning Joseph. He mourns him until he learns that Joseph is indeed alive and well in Egypt.


The point that my pastor shared was this: Jacob lived over two decades of his life believing a lie. He based his attitude on that lie. He based a lot of life decisions on that lie. He related to his family and friends based on that lie. He related to God based on that lie.


His whole life was affected by this lie. It colored his entire world. For over two decades.


Then my pastor asked this question: What lie are you believing and how is it affecting your life?


Wow. That’s a powerful question. And I had to do some soul-searching.


Here are some of the questions I had to ask myself:

Do you believe that God’s love for you is based on how well you follow a set of rules? Or how well you ‘behave?’ Or how much you study your Bible and pray and attend church and give to the poor?

Do you believe that you’re not good enough? Or smart enough? Or young/old enough? . . . To do/be whatever you feel God wants you to do/be?

Do you believe you’ve made too many mistakes? Or one too BIG mistakes? And because of this, you’ve used up all your chances?

Do you believe your past is too powerful to overcome? That what you’ve done can’t be forgiven? Or that what’s been done to you can’t be redeemed?


What is the lie (or lies) that you’re believing?

And how is that lie keeping you from living the life God created you to live?

How is believing that lie stopping you from fulfilling your purpose?

How is the perpetuation of that lie keeping you from being the influence in your family and your church and your community that God wants you to be?


And what is the TRUTH that needs to replace that lie?


My prayer is that you will take some time this week and ask God what lie(s) you’re believing. And then ask Him to reveal to you the TRUTH.  And then I challenge you to start verbally replacing that lie with the truth every time you think about it.


And watch your life dramatically change!!



Filler August 19, 2014

Filed under: Devotional,My Life — rjfleming @ 2:56 am

A few weeks ago I mentioned a thought that came to me in the middle of the night. It’s still swirling around in my head. Here’s the thought:

“There is not enough human acceptance, affection, attention, or approval on earth to make up for your lack of an acute awareness of just how much God loves you.”

This thought reminds of the “God-shaped hole” concept. The idea that every person is born with a hole in their life that only God can fill. A longing only He can satisfy.

While I agree with that concept, I believe we need to go a little deeper.

I don’t believe having God in your life, having a personal relationship with Him through Jesus, automatically fills up that aching hole or satisfies that intense longing. I think it takes more than that.

I’m basing that statement on my own personal experience. For years–even decades–after I began my personal relationship with God, I continued to run around searching for something to fill up an aching emptiness in my life.

The sad thing is I apparently wasn’t aware of what I was doing or I’d have gone directly to God and asked Him to take care of it. Instead I looked everywhere else trying to find something or someone that could satisfy the intense longing that only the intense love of my Creator could provide.

I tried human acceptance. If only the right person or the right people would accept me, would include me, would like me . . . then I would be okay. Then I would feel like my life had purpose.

I sought human affection. If only this person would love me. If they would just want me and choose me . . . then I would feel worthy to be the person I was supposed to be.

I craved human attention. Since I wasn’t being accepted by the people I ‘needed’ to accept me and since I wasn’t being given affection by the people I ‘needed’ to choose me and love me, I unknowingly went about seeking attention from other people. I guess this was necessary in order to feel validated as a human being . . . because without attention from somebody, I felt like I was a waste of oxygen.

And when all else failed, I did whatever it took to at least gain people’s approval. I worked more than required, said yes to anything I was asked to do, and tried to anticipate other people’s needs and fulfill them before they even had a chance to take care of it themselves. Even if they didn’t approve of me, they would at least approve of my work . . . because it was excellent.

But none of it soothed the ache.

And it won’t for you either.

Without the very personal awareness of how much God loves you, the great lengths He went to in order to have a personal relationship with you, how many times He thinks about you every day, how intimately He knows you–and yet still loves you enough to die so you can live . . . until those are the thoughts that fill up your mind and until that is the knowledge that swirls through your spirit and until that is the backdrop for the life you live surrendered to Him . . .

You could possibly keep doing what I did for decades.

Use acceptance, affection, attention, and approval from other people as filler for a hole that God created in your life as His own place of residence. And there’s not enough of that filler in the entire world to even make a dent in the emptiness.


Owing vs. Owning August 12, 2014

Filed under: Devotional — rjfleming @ 3:17 am

A couple of weeks ago my pastor shared the testimony of a fellow pastor.


Years ago, this pastor moved away from his home state and planted a church in obedience to God.


A few years into the project, things weren’t going so well. There had been very little growth. They still had less than 100 members. It had not turned out at all the way he imagined it would or how he expected God to work it out.


And in the process of planting the church, this pastor had lost everything. He had lost his home. He had lost cars. He had lost everything. And he was continuing to lose.


One day he was praying and crying out to God about the situation.


He reminded God that He was the one who asked him to give up his previous life. Asked him to move his family to this particular location and plant a church. He told God that He owed him because of all he had given up, all he had lost, and all he had invested in this church plant.


And then God told him something.


God told this pastor, “I don’t owe you. I own you.”


And the pastor said that from then on, everything changed.


Wow. God’s right, you know. He does own us. He owns us because He bought us with the blood of His own Son.


And because He owns us, He can use us whenever and however and for whatever purposes and for however long He chooses.


This pastor’s conversation with God changed his attitude. I have a feeling he was reminded that he was there to do whatever work God gave him to do, and that the outcomes were up to God. At least, that’s what this story helped me remember.


Where has God placed you? What work has He given you to do? How is it going so far? Do you feel like God OWES you because of what you’ve given up or lost or invested? Or do you live like He OWNS you?


Oh. And by the way. The pastor is still at that same church. Only it now has over 15,000 members, is heavily involved in helping the people in the community, and is one of the most well-respected churches in the city.


Go figure.


Falling Up August 5, 2014

Filed under: My Book Clients,My Life — rjfleming @ 3:07 am

This is a very exciting week for me.

As you probably know, I’m a book coach and editor. I work with nonfiction authors in several genres, helping get books written and published that will change people’s lives.

Several months ago I met Connie Carey at a monthly meeting of the National Speakers Association – Georgia Chapter. She asked for my business card and contacted me soon after that meeting to discuss her book ideas.

Long story short, I was honored to work with Connie to help her choose her subject, organize her material, and then edit her book. And Thursday night I’ll be attending her book launch!

Her book is titled Falling Up: Lessons Learned on the Way Down. It’s an uplifting, inspirational book that you do not want to miss. In this book, Connie shares her journey of healing from the loss of her father to suicide. I knew Connie would do an outstanding job telling her story, but she far surpassed everything I was anticipating. You’ll want a copy of this book for yourself. But this is also a great book to share . . . especially with someone who’s been through heartache in their life.

And there’s more exciting news! Connie will be competing later this month in Malaysia at the International Speech Contest sponsored by Toastmasters, International. At the launch Thursday night I’ll get to hear the two talks she’ll be taking to Malaysia as well as the story behind her book. I think I know a little bit about that one, but I can hardly wait to hear it again!

Falling Up will be available on Amazon beginning Friday. Here’s the information on it. And you can keep up with Connie through her website at

Congratulations, Connie!!

Falling Up Front Cover






Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 57 other followers

%d bloggers like this: